Every Monday, social media timelines are flooded with women posting pictures of the men they adore with the hash tag #MCM (“Man Crush Monday“). Those who are in relationships, engaged or married usually post a picture of their man with the hashtag #MCE (“Man Crush Everyday”), which signifies that this is the person they are crushing on 24/7.
I’ve been single for the past 2 1/2 years and never partook in #MCM/#MCE. It’s not that I didn’t want to participate; I just wasn’t in an official relationship with anyone. (Side note: I don’t believe in publicly broadcasting someone I am just “talking” to.)
However, every week it seemed as if someone new revealed their #MCE. Everyone around me was getting in new relationships, engaged, or married. Meanwhile, I was still single. I became upset because it seemed like all of the women who were getting “cuffed” lacked quality…
This is an impromptu post inspired by couple of things beginning from me pondering about life, my life, the moments I have felt like giving up and drifted into seclusion; I say seclusion because I don’t believe it to be depression, I just don’t. Thinking back to those moments, I realize the importance of positive and encouraging words/gestures. In the spirit of that, I am here today to plant a seed of hope and encourage you. (more…)
Hello there! So I finally got a breather today, been super uber busy with life but it’s all for the betterment of a life ready to live purposefully, so please bear with me for now (thank yoouu). My main reason of posting today is to share with you, perhaps remind you of what we seem to always forget… (more…)
I just had to come here and share this post (or article) with you all really quick. I’ve always been a firm believer of the content written up, and I always have it in the back of my mind… it sort of keeps me grounded as a single christian lady. It helps me focus on what it is really important when it comes to my marriage. You see, it really isn’t about me or my partner at the end of the day, it’s about the most high and he must be glorified in all areas of my life, marriage is not an exclusion to that. So as christians, (more…)
You guys will just have to pardon my inconsistency, and not judge me… It is way harder than I ever thought, so with that in mind I won’t even bother promising I will post regularly. Let’s just hope I do, smh.
Whud’Up Peepz! Happy Good Friday… a moment of reflection on what this means.